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Originally Posted by Purple Heart
This weekend is probably the saddest we’re both been since we first met. We both cried our eyes out today realising that the relationship/marriage isn’t going to work. I feel so sad I could cry a river. And I feel even more sad to see her so upset. But what can I do? My problems from my childhood got in the way unfortunately.
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I'm so sorry. It is sad when things don't work out. I don't know if counseling is something that you would be interested in, but it may be worth it. Don't know.
Also, there are two people in your relationship - each with their own problems and expectations. It is very very important to realize that your issues alone are not enough to derail anything.
If, in the end, this doesn't work out, well, it just doesn't. Personally, I would not go down without a fight because love, well, that's worth fighting for - even if it's just a glimmer of what it once was.
Good luck and peace to you.