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Old Dec 18, 2011, 11:28 AM
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Originally Posted by Leed View Post
I'm glad you're going into therapy. I'm SURE it will help you get thru this.

It's only natural that you would be gun-shy after having something like this happen. But don't let it sour you for future relationships --- not EVERY woman is like that, thank goodness! LOL You'll find a woman who is trustworthy & faithful -- just make sure you don't look for someone just like your ex!! Sometimes we do that, and it just make for more trouble.

Give yourself some time to heal -- don't jump into a new relationship soon. After a 10 year relationship, I'd surely stay "single" for at least a year -- that doesn't mean you can't date tho.

God bless & take care of yourself. Hugs, Lee
Thank you for your reply Lee,

I'm glad you feel sure that therapy will help me... I really hope so because the last 6 weeks of my life have been pure hell. I barely have anything to cope with and nothing seems to bring happiness to my life... I guess it's because I had laid out all my hopes and dreams on her and just knew we'd be together for the rest of my life.

It's just so painful. Thank you for your kind words, they mean a lot.
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