I know you told me not to look, Jan, but I had to. I can't post here what I would do if I was in your situation and truthfully, it wouldn't be the "legal" way to go.
OMG!! I can't believe I'm going to post this... Do you know any Hell's Angels????? Murder ISN'T what you want, ok?

for you.
If I could, Jan, I'd be there at the drop of a hat and take you so far away from that, that....!!!!!!
Jan, I commit to praying a hedge of protection around you daily...
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Psalm 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.