Summeryoga - thank you for the response. It's been 2 days now since he left and I am feeling better. I am taking your advice as well as others to view my home/work life as a whole. In those 2 days, I opened up to my husband about this and he says he understands, which helped me lift a big load of guilt off my back. But I'm not totally over it. I won't be for a while. But advice like yours really helps!