I thought about both, getting to know them and avoiding them. I was afraid about getting to know them because they showed an interest in me. I think it was because I must have seemed all ga-ga about them. So I started avoiding now.

I like the 'warts and all' comment. Again, back to that fairy tale analogy. It's like the big ugly bad witch cast a spell where instead of seeing all her warts and green skin, I am under the spell and see a very attractive woman.

I did ask around in the office where it didnt come off like I am asking because I am interested, but lot of the women tell me she's dated many guys in the office because she's desperate. So maybe I'm not the only guy she's charmed into this infatuation? I don't want to be the fool to fall for it.

I'll avoid her if I can and see if it goes away. But after that, if I have to work with her I will to get to know the reality rather than the fantasy in my head.