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Dec 19, 2011, 06:22 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Bless your heart. You sound like a very intelligent person -- you realize that we really shouldn't make ONE person the whole basis of our lives. It's important to have friends, family too. 
I'm glad you found out about your cheating fiance' BEFORE you got married! Believe me, if he did it once, he'll do it again. It always happens. If he doesn't respect your committment NOW, he's surely not going to abide by a few words in a marriage vow. 
I KNOW you're in alot of pain -- you trusted him and he was your whole world. But try to be grateful that you found out now -- you DESERVE someone who won't betray you like this. There IS someone out there like that, just for you!!! Don't let this guy get away with it, and just because he says he "won't do it again" doesn't mean that he won't. Look for a guy who respects you.
God bless & I PROMISE that the pain will start to ease soon. Just don't give him the chance to hurt you again. Take care. Hugs, Lee
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