
Dec 19, 2011, 06:29 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi -- you don't say how old you are, but I BEG you to talk to someone about this. I don't know how your relationship is with your parents, but you could start there. Also, the person who did this to you shouldn't be able to get away with it -- he's probably "hurting" someone else by now. I know you couldn't prove it now, but just letting others know what happened would help.
You also NEED THERAPY. A good therapist will be able to help you with this. So many women keep sexual abuse a secret because they fear they will be blamed -- that it's THEIR fault. It is NOT your fault, and you are NOT "dirty" or "used goods." Someone abused you, and it was NOT with your permission!!! You need help in learning how to respect yourself, and love yourself. You are as good as anyone else -- and as DESERVING of good things as anyone else!!!
Please talk to a counselor ---- even if it's a counselor at school. You need help with this. God bless & please take care. Let me know how you're doing. Hugs, Lee
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