I never had asexual explained to me. I heard the word and then researched what that meant. I have heterosexual and homosexual friends, so have not had the chance to even talk to anybody asexual. I don't feel any different about asexual as I do about anybody. My questions would be the obvious. Asexual means no sexual feelings towards somebody? But attracted to somebody because you love being with them, and like being close? Sex with somebody would be for the other persons pleasure?