Caution is the word. I think there are some reputable sites now and you always take your chances. And of course if you do find someone you NEVER meet them privately. You go with a friend to a library, a restaurant, etc. ...anything thats public.Have the friend sit within viewing distance, and never leave with that person no matter what his story is.......people are not what they seem... .....If you have their real name you do a background check etc. When you meet them you ask to see their drivers license athought that can be made up you know.....Do your research...like I mentioned...background check, friends, anything...better safe then sorry. Never take their word for anything until you know that they are who they say they are!
Good luck!! 
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