(((((((Jan)))))))

I've been reading too, and will keep reading.

I keep wondering why he isn't locked up in jail? And why he's even allowed to call you even to make payment arrangements? That needs to go through lawyers or somebody else because he has no business ever contacting you or traumatizing you in any way. He is in violation of the restraining order for calling you and threatening you, and he should be in jail for that. I'm also concerned that you're following what happens with him (like that he was fired) because that must be another stress that you don't need.

I'm sorry if I come across as lecturing. I don't mean to, but I'm mad on your behalf because you just shouldn't have to keep getting more to deal with.

Also, I want you to know that I know it's hard to get law enforcement to follow through enough when they should. I just thought in a situation like this where the guy is still out there being a threat, they would do something about it. (I pressed charges against the girl who assaulted me last summer and haven't heard anything even though I asked for repayment of the $1000 medical bill from that - I didn't have any permanent damage, but some things like the black eyes rang a bell for me because I had that too even though that wasn't where I was hit).

Anyway, thanks for opening up. Know that you always have a friend here. Let me know anything I can do.

Be Safe,
Rap