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Old Dec 20, 2011, 01:32 AM
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Today I am grateful:
  • that I've finished watching my target number of videos for today *phew*
  • that my garden is so inviting at the moment
  • that my official bachelor degree arrived in the mail today just in time for my last t session before the break
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He said that we can email as MUCH as we want (100 times per day). Believe in this - it is challenging fears about being punished. It is okay to be seen. You are not a nuisance. "Too much" simply means exploration, not punishment/withdrawal. Trust in him.

Not looking at him is about keeping aspects of self hidden/secret. We know that is not the healthy choice. Keep working on this - you will get there.

Accept there are parts. Be kind and gentle with them. Working with parts and feelings is the key to happiness. We have been happy before when listened to them and accepted them and were open to feelings. Write in your journal - it is safe to do so.