Your interpretation of your dream is probably pretty close. We each have our own dream language, so what it would me to me (should I dream that sort of dream) could be very different from yours.

But it's very very often true that sex in a dream isn't about sex.

I think the fact that you wanted a reply from T re: your email but didn't want to have to ask for one/was uncomfortable asking for one is indicative of a "problem" so many of us have. We just want others who are important to us to know these things. If we're important to them, we shouldn't have to tell them. If we have to tell them, we can't mean much to them--after all, what we want/need is so obvious. & I feel unvalued if I have to come right out and say it.

I'm not trying to put words in your mouth. These words have come from my mouth, as I've tried to deal with it with Ts. I think it's a major issue. If you agree, I hope you'll tell T what you told us.

Good luck with your session. I've got one with my pdoc...