Good thoughts. I think two things stood out too me.

1. In general, we have become a more selfish society which leads men to not take care of their families they way they used to.

2. We women are more responsible than we want to believe. If we accept bad behavior, then why should we be surprised when we get it? So much is learned in the home and when there is not a positive relationship example for children to see, how can we expect them to just know how to create one?