Right Pat and I know you have been gone and not seen a lot of my posts and all but yes I have health issues and all and had/have cash flow issues, no T for months...many many things..too many to post but that was like just a small example of how things like that can hurt a person..I said above I doubt they knew I had clothes on from the Gap but it felt creepy..and just so much.....I wll be ok I am just overwhemed with too much and yeah not feeling 100% doesn't help