Even more than the other thread I posted (although I certainly appreciate all the feedback on the other thread), you may want to look at this one. Nobody has commented on it, but I plan to cut the BS from the first thread and be a little more forward with it. I plan to ask her this in session tomorrow:

http://forums.psychcentral.com/showthread.php?t=209647

I do trust her enough that whatever her answer is, it will be therapeutic. I'll post her reaction tomorrow. She keeps saying she wants me to open up; well, she's gonna get it in spades.