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Irreplaceable · Dec 20, 2011, 01:29 PM

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Originally Posted by LovesShelly

My 'love' life is stressing me out.

Me and my friend Josh had this little thing. I thought he might have had feelings for me, but I was wrong. I asked him if there could be anything serious between use (like a relationship) and he laughed at me. He told me I was crazy for thinking that and that I wasn't his type.

My ex-boyfriend, Chris, is trying to get back together with me. We broke up after I found out he cheated on me with 5 other girls! I really do like him, but he hurt me more than he had to. It hurts every time he tells me he's sorry and that he misses me. He told me that I was the best girl he's ever had. He tells me that he loves me and wishes I would give him a second chance. I would give him a second chance, but I know how he is. After we broke up he started dating his ex-girlfriend (the girl he was with before me) only a week later!! I'm so hurt right now and I don't know what to do.
I want Chris back, more than anything, but I know he will only hurt me again. I miss him so much, and I feel like I'm stupid/weak for missing him. I don't know how to handle my feelings. Should I give him a second chance?

My ex-girlfriend, Kelly, (yes, I'm bisexual. please don't judge) is flirting with me. She will randomly act like she did when we we're dating (holding me, the way she talks to me, ect.). I just don't know. It's like she wants me back, but she says that she only sees me as a friend now. Then, she'll just start talking about when we used to date. She says that I'm the only one she'll ever date again. It's so confusing.

I just need some advice or even just a hug. I feel so confused and hurt. I don't know how to handle my situation with Kelly or Chris.

Please help me

It depends on what you want...If you want just sex, then get it from Kelly or Chris...If you want more, you won't get more...When people tell you (actions) how they feel about you, listen to them...Neither of these people are trying to be in a relationship with you...Neither of them show they are good relationship material...Especially Chris...And I will be honest with you...Chris is only telling you what you want to hear...He knows that he can get sex or whatever else it is that you give him, he can get it for free from you...This person cheated on you more than once...That alone shows you how he feels about you...And more specifically the fact that he can get sex from you with no reprecussions...Neither one of these people are winners...Chris is a serial cheater...And Kelly wants sex from you....Bisexual or not, this Kelly chick is acting like a guy...For real...She is OK with sex, but she isn't ready for a relationship...She is whispering sweet nothings in your ear but says she doesn't want a relationship...Watch out for the people who you attract in your life....These people are saying one thing but doing another...If Chris cared, he wouldn't have cheated multiple times...I don't care what he tells you, there is no excuse for that...And you asked should you give him another chance? Yea, if you wanted to get cheated on..Be smart...Look at the way people treat you, not at what they tell you...I may not know these people personally, but I've heard this same story time and time again...You will regret it if you try to make something out of nothing with these people...I can promise you that...Always tell people how they should treat you and tell them what your boundaries are...People respect you more for that...Sweetie, there are alot of men AND women out there who will treat you like a true Princess and won't give you the headache that these two are giving you...Know your worth...Be smart...