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Old Dec 20, 2011, 03:33 PM
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Originally Posted by 3rdTimesTheCharm View Post
I think that you have a sense of yourself as an influential person, someone who has a positive influence on the people around you. From the way that you talk about your H and your clients, at least I feel that.

So I see your workings-on in this thread as an outgrowth of that. I think you already know the answer, that you influence your T as well. Maybe then the question is what does it mean to you to know that you have such a positive influence on everyone around you?

Anne
I think this is pretty profound, Anne. I know I do have a positive influence on most of the individuals I choose to; but there have been a few astoundingly negative reactions/rejections that affect me to this day. I am simply afraid that T will reject me. I was just sitting doing my CBT homework and realize I have a real problem with jumping to conclusions. Read my answer to hankster for more info.
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