I totally relate with you dragonfly...it is annoying to be upset inside and not be able to express it so you can move on. I agree about watching a sad movie...I watched Fried Green Tomatoes the other day and I cried like a baby, it felt so good to get it out! Although I must say that it can be so frustrating to be shut off to the point that you can't connect with a movie to even be able to cry. I've been there too. Hope you get to cry soon to get some of this out!