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Originally Posted by hankster
Rule #1, don't read too much into emails, into what's there or not there. We're not children playing "does he like me?". So - what "truth"? Are you having a "real" relationship, is that the question? We kick that one around a lot on here! Can she be your friend AND your T? And do her job? My T says he can't, and since he's already my T, ixnay on being my oyfriendbay.
Why do we all want to become part of our T's families? Why not our dermatologists? Or our podiatrists? Or somewhere in between...
p.s. good! hold onto that anger and hostility and bring it into your next session! even if you have to read it from this thread to do it.
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Sorry...felt the need to blow off some steam.
I just think she has tried to tread that thin line of "friend-ish" a couple of times what with all the talk of being "colleagues" and personal requests on her part. Of course I like that, then she pulls back. I need consistency! Her personality doesn't seem to be very consistent. She seems easily influenced by whims. So I guess I know what I'm gonna ask for tomorrow!
