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Dec 20, 2011, 09:26 PM
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Member Since: Dec 2011
Location: Minnesota
Posts: 400
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I've found that I've dated some very nice men that didn't have the type of issues I have (i.e. 'normal' - no pschological issues). thing is they can never deal with the ups and downs of my depression.
I have also dated a couple of guys who have issues but self medicated with pot and refuse to go to the doctor for help. I now have a strict rule about not dating pot-smokers (I think pot should be legal, etc, but I learned it's not for me and I don't want it in my life).
I guess I'm wondering if I can actually date someone normal, who will love me with my flaws or will they all be driven away? (I know that's somewhat rhetorical) Do I need to find someone else with issues along the same lines as mine to be happy or is that a recipe for disaster?
I read a lot of posts from people who state they have awesome partners who are very supportive which gives me hope...sorry for the ramble. 
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