Your T encouraged you to fantasize about him/her? In what context? Sexual?

Please understand, my response to this has nothing to do with you. I am totally focused on this T. I've had several over the years, from many different schools of psychology. I understand transference. But this sounds like something way different.

Are you still seeing this T? From what you said in your post, you have every reason to be angry with this person who did apparently set you up for rejection. But I may be over-reacting. Let's see what others think ...