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Old Dec 20, 2011, 11:19 PM
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Originally Posted by CantExplain View Post
Like me, you have a very definite expectation of what other people ought to do. And when they deviate from the script you've written for them,...

Well, think about how you generally react to that!
Interesting you talk about scripts. I consciously know I have certain scripts with my clients. I think of one in particular. He's autistic, schizophrenic, borderline MR. He used to have a "maladaptive" behavior of "pillow arming" people (this involved squeezing a person's upper arm while saying *person's name* pillow arms). Bizarre I know, but the correct med/behavior plan combo extinguished the behavior.

We have this script: He'll ask, "Why did I used to "Chopin *maiden name*?" I always say, "I don't know *Client*, you'll have to tell me because I can't read your mind." He'll say, "I don't know why I used to "Chopin *maiden name*. But I don't "Chopin *married name* anymore. I show you respect."

A couple of months ago, he disarmed me when I asked him to tell me why, he changed the script by saying, "I suppose I did it because I like you." I about fell out, but in a good way.

When the script changes in a negative way, I don't like it at all!
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