Is this one of those forums that subtly punishes you if you don't heed advice or follow the party line? Not a judgment, but I've experienced that before and it didn't feel good. I know I should walk away, but it aint easy. What do I do while I decide how to proceed? Argh. I'm lost and don't know which way is up anymore. I feel more detached than before, but I don't know if I'm playing with fire. I guess I already know the answer to that...