We all have flaws. Some more intense flaws than others, so to speak. I believe that to the core.

I also believe that we have to be willing to accept the specific flaws of others. For instance, you are unwilling to accept pot-smokers in your private world. Perfectly acceptable to say "no" to this or that, just know that there will be other flaws that the other men will have. You both have to be supportive of each other to have a successful relationship.