Hi, I can't say for giving to kids, but I have taken it in the past myself for other issues, PTSD, but really took it so I could sleep with my bladder issues. It can cause some uncomfortable feelings. I fought it at the high doses because it felt like i was trapped in my body..as is really strong. I had to be mentally tired already to take it without that feeling. But, also have heard bipolar friends say they dont like taking their meds because of enjoying their manic phases too. Did he say why he doesn't want to take it, specifically?