I was 23 when I finally had my first boyfriend. I was 24 the first time we made love. How is that useless??? You need to stop looking for the one and start having fun. You are to young to not have fun. They way I see it is you can't miss somthing you have never had. So just have fun and love will find you. It's kinda like when u loose ur keys. And when u stop looking you find them. Haha. Corny I know. But at 22 I still need to go out Meet ppl and travail. Sorry my post is all over the place.