I am wanting peoples opinions on something... I know ultimately it's going to be up to me and what is most comfortable but please hear me out anyway.

I am currently going through a lot of depression and anxiety over a relationship loss with my ex. She is someone that i had put all my time, hopes, dreams and I'm deeply in love with her. I never thought she'd ever leave me but she has. So it's as if I can't wrap my brain around the situation because it feels like the impossible has happened.

I am wanting to start therapy to try and work out my problems as much as I can. My question is would it be better for me to find a female psychotherapist rather than a male... because a womans feedback on my relationship would probably be better. I guess I feel like I'll never fully trust again if I ever find another relationship.... and having a womans feedback on my issues would maybe shed more light on things?

Thanks for reading.