Okay...so mixed reviews....lol, but an honest one at least. I'm so nervous about trying this again its unbelievable. I have looked at reviews and statistics for each of the cites that I have looked at...so I'm at least marginally well informed....I guess I'm just very nervous and feel out of my depth, which is very hard for me to admit. I'm also worried I guess because I have been alone and independent for so long that I'm stuck in my ways and no man is going to want me. I'm not inflexible or unwilling to bend and communicate and be "with" someone, as a couple, but I'm still worried....okay, now I'm sounding like a desperate person.