I agree with what people have said above. Depressedalaskan and TerryL make a good point when they say that the fact you commented on a post is positive in itself, as it shows that you care about the other person and try to be helpful.
We can't always come up with a proper solution that is right for the other person, but we can show our support and offer them some kindness.
Don't fear - just try it.

At the same time, can I say that your hugs are still appreciated as well, of course, Fuzzy! :-)