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Originally Posted by roadrunnerbeepbeep
I'm with you, Christina.
Joanna, what your BF asks is just so far beyond what is healthy to ask our loved ones to do that I hope you can get across to him what doing this will cost you. It's stress for you, but maybe not for him. Maybe it's like a teenage thrill ride. Guys are just different in some things, & he doesn't get it that this is a major big deal for you.
If you say no, what will the consequences be of that?
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I don't think there would be consequences but I think it's too late for that. The lie is already out there and we "have left" so I feel that it's out of my hands. I told him last night how big of a deal this was for me and he feels bad but I think he felt like he couldn't back out either. I made sure he understands this is not going to happen again.