Thread: this is crazy
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Old Dec 22, 2011, 12:41 AM
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Originally Posted by Sheba976 View Post
Umm I would think his mother would understand that you also need to spend Christmas with your own family. Any reasonable person would? Why is he coming up with this ridiculous lie? Just not to upset Mom? If that's the case you need to set boundaries with this woman now if you plan on being together for the long term.
From what I've understood hearing about his childhood is mom is most likely bipolar and extremely unstable. I do agree that it's not an excuse and now that he's an adult he needs to tell her like it is anyway. It's not like he lives with her so what is the worst possible outcome? Probably just some pissy text messages.