Hello Molly, thank you for your post. I was diagnosed about ten years ago and received some treatment but when I lost my insurance, I lost my treatment options. I am now pursuing new treatment options and would like to know what medication you are on, and any other treatments you may be receiving.
As for Rayman, I too am like your wife. I married my husband about 5 years ago - my God! I just realised I forgot our anniversary was 3 days ago! That's Ok - so did he (he's not ADD, but we have allot going on on top of basic dysfunctions). - and I really am only now beginning to see how, under stressful circumstances my ADD affects my family, particularily my spouse. I am currently seeking support and hopefully treatment. I hope she will become open to helping you and herself by pursuing support, if not treatment. I don't want to lose my relationship and I hope she doesn't have to lose hers.

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