wow thank you all-- yeah I have been afraid that they will look at me different in ways,

I think right now with my supervisor she knows enough in ways, and that should be good for now-- i just was afraid that she may tell upper management to whom they do not know me that well-- yeah sure they here little good things and some times I am mentioned in good ways but they dont know me -- I cant say that my supervisor knows me knows me either but she knows a lot

thanks all for your stories and thoughts on this--- it is helpful to pick a side and where to stand on it-