Ever since my best friend died 8 yrs ago, I have been noticing the below more and more. I don't know if it is just a normal part of growing older, times changing, or my eyes being opened.

I think it is result of my eyes being opened.

Seems like your "friendship" is over once you are useless.

I have met many a "friend" over the past few years since I moved to this area. (Wondering if this is just a regional thing in Northern/Central Virginia.

You are a "friend" if you watch their kids for free. The second you stop, you are no longer a "friend" if you don't.

You are a "friend" if you buy stuff from their friends and no longer a "friend" if you don't.

I am pretty cold to the whole friendship thing at this point but it still makes me wonder.

I can't help but wonder why friendships are not like you are raised to believe them to be.

Never had a problem with anyone in High School and had a few good "friends" there too. The only reason we stopped talking is because their parents moved. God forbid you reach back and try to contact an old high school friend on Facebook though. See if they don't suddenly develop with their internet connection.

Amazing...felt good to get this off my chest!