If you are uncomfortable with a T, feel free to change Ts. However, try to consider the possibility that he/she is just trying to make you look at something that is painful. I found my first one to be overly blunt. But, I put up with it because she made me think and reconsider my views on that particular area of childhood. I still find myself playing with some of the talks that I had with her. I almost miss her bluntness. She seemed to find my hiden dysfunctional side rather than my public dysfunctional side.
Give a different T a try and see what happens.