If you are already doing that, than that is more than great. I don't have children myself, but I have seen quite few cases when parents focus on their children issues whether mental or physical, and it's not that they wanted to have it easy, but I guess it easy to focus on the problem. Which can create a huge frustration for the said child. I think it was the part of "just being defiant" that ticked me off a bit.

If medical science works for your son, than great, but that was not my point, no matter what my attitude is.

I did not mean any offense.