I was talking to my friend Ryan about SI the other day and he had some interesting opinions. You see, he did it for a while, but now beleives the SI is a selfish act. I guess in a way it is since our only goal is the feel better, but he explained it to me. He says...what if something happens and you die? Then you are depriving people (who might have loved you without you realizing it) the opportunity to be with you. what are your thoughts on this?