(((((Squiggle))))) Yes. I do get upset with T and don't know why. Or I push T away and there was no danger at all. Just did it last week!

For some people, our past contains people who were very nice to us because they wanted something from us. Or they were nice to us one day and hurt us deeply the next day. We learn from hard experience to be extra cautious around others - esp anyone who is being super nice to us. It puts us on-guard and we start looking around waiting for the rock to drop out of the sky onto our head.