I certainly feel angry, jealous, abandoned by my T, and one of the frustrating parts is that it makes no sense to me, she hasn't actually 'done' anything, in fact she's the most supportive person I've ever met.
But, what I'm starting to realize is that me beating myself up over these feelings doesn't help at all, in fact it compounds.
What has helped though is talking about it with her. And even though I know that helps me, I still have to remind myself of it all the time.

Please clue her in.

Good luck