So80 said: "Just what my therapist said last night. She said if she had no friends, no realationship and no job that she'd want to kill herself. She was saying in relation to my current life situation."

What your T said is, to me, so wildly inappropriate that before doing or thinking anything else you really have to find out whether this is indeed what she said and/or meant, or just what you heard, which may be quite different. I cannot imagine that a T who was not herself around the bend would say anything of the sort to a client. And while there are many different kinds and qualities of T's around, it's really hard for me to imagine there are a large quantity who would go this far out of line.

Check with her. Ask her what she meant. If you want a trustworthy answer, don't phrase your question to include a description of what you thought you heard. Just ask her, simply, "You made a comment to me last time that I didn't quite understand. Could you repeat it?" If she then needs a little more prompting for her memory to work, you might refer to what she would do if she had no friends. DO NOT accuse her of advising you to kill yourself. That will tip her off and you'll never get the truth.

But I must say that what you report her as having said is so far out of line that there's a substantial chance you heard wrong. And in my personal experience that happens often. Take care!