Hey Melissa,

For me my first marriage , not worth it. It was abusive, however as bad as it might have been, I learnt some very valuable lessons. Which have permitted me to be in the relationship that I am in now. We have been together for nearly 6 years and it only keeps getting better. Seriously. I think if you are in the right relationship with the right person for the right reasons it is definatly worth it.

I know the old saying " he/she completes me". My bf does not complete me, he compliments my life. He brings things to my life that I could get by just fine without. But my life is so much better enriched in having him by my side, why would I want to miss out on that. I'm pretty independent, as in I can take care of myself. But to have someone to share it all with makes it all more worthwhile, for me that is.

I wish I was a better writer so I could answer you better. I know your status from being here for a while. So I'm not quite sure how to answer but if you have any more questions, I'd love to chat with you anytime.