Venus's quote says it all....
"It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society." Krishnamurti

The question isn't really why we can't be normal. The question is really why we can't be ourselves?

My version of Krishnamurti's quote is this..."Stupid" judges "Intelligent" to be "Retarded". The society is "stupid" to higher levels of consciousness and treats it like it's handicapped, needing meds and therapy.

No, we just need to be ourselves and we are fine. The real healing for ADD/ADHD/Bipolar/Aspergers, etc...., is to be ourselves. We can never change our gifts nor our limitations, but come to see both and live according to them.

I self healed through awareness of the big picture... http://www.profound-self-help.com/adhd-self-help.html

I'm no longer trying to be "normal". My blogsite is a testament to my growth.