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Dec 24, 2011, 09:57 PM
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Member Since: Dec 2011
Posts: 11
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"Speaking as someone who's been depressed, I know the allure of being a tragic figure. I know the idea of wallowing in misery, when you're down, is attractive."
that would have been the point where i had stopped the conversation...
the problem is that of course, that every person is different and therefore handles
problems differently. if that guy can't help you, u need to find someone else who does
possibly he had different problems then you, and therefore had a different "cure" that he now may think can cure others too (but i of course have no idea^^)
but first, you need to know what you are actually seeking, to be honest, i found
"I just need you to be a friend and hear me - not try to 'help' me by pointing out what my 'problem' is..."
kind of confusing... why don't u want him to help you? isn't that what friends are for? o.O what do you really want from him?
if you don't want to talk about it and 'solve' it with a "friend", then you should tell that in the beginning... i know when i person i care for has problems, i want to go to the very bottom of it and help him as much is i can (but since i expect an answer to my "what do you want from him" question, i can give you a more detailed/more fitting advise later  )
hoping to hear from you soon
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