Married for over 40 years with a pretty decent man. Thirty of those years were pretty doggone good. Two children to bless this relationship. Later in life he became pretty toxic and when he passed, I was left adrift and angry at his legal drug abuse. It was worth the time though; and I would not close my heart to a new healthy relationship.
Be choosey and use the God given sense you have to make a choice; don't base it on
just on attraction, but whether he would make a good husband and father.