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Originally Posted by Wannabe_Kenny
but first, you need to know what you are actually seeking, to be honest, i found
"I just need you to be a friend and hear me - not try to 'help' me by pointing out what my 'problem' is..."
kind of confusing... why don't u want him to help you? isn't that what friends are for? o.O what do you really want from him?
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It might not be clear from my post, but it was unsolicited advice. I didn't go to him for advice, we were just chatting - then he starts with all his opinions of what's wrong with me. It's not something I find helpful - as he is not in a position to be helping me. He's not exeperienced or qualified to help me, and I find his advice to be.. well, less than helpful. Mostly he just upsets me. And, I have told him this before and requested that we stick to lighter topics.
Thanks for your input though, I do hear what you're saying, and I appreciate it
