I am put in a situation I did not think I would have to worry about,
but, I have a client now where she has romantic feelings
she has confessed for me. I feel warm about it because
it is flattering to be desired again,b ut also because I
find her attractive, greatly.
At first I thought it might just be the 'transferance" effect,
but I searched my history and past and realized she is much
of what I like and love in a woman.
Being a male, I am doubly in a fix, and as her 'helper' and 'support'
it would cost me my job and career if I pursued this feeling.
How can I end it with her romantically and still mantain the
professional relationship.
The way things run, is if we do not like someone, we do not
get to say, this is a bad match. We get who we get and lump it. Same with
the attraction thing, but we would be forbidden to ever meet
for any reason anytime for other than business.

I want to keep this job and a hope of a romance is not
enough to destroy that over, but the feelings make it hard
to not do something stupid.

Thanks
SW