But, who is this girl I see him with? Why does he send me flirty msgs back? Why does he only offer me lifts? why doesnt he call or initiate contact besides asking me for lifts? And, how could I find out about this girl without making it obvious that I care about knowing or that would not make me feel stupid or that I like him. I do not want to show him all these feelings and emotions because if I do and his reaction was blunt or arrogant I dont want to get my feelings hurt. I'm a sensitive girl and I dont want to feel like im clingy or want to know who that girl is especially since he didnt identify what I mean to him yet.