You speak English very well, Wannabe Kenny
I think you're right about my friend in that he does want to help, and he does care -- and I do appreciate that -- but it's frustrating for me because I just don't feel he 'gets' it. I'm not sure he's had depression, but I know he certainly never had anxiety, and if someone hasn't been there I don't think they can fully understand how it manifests -- he has a habit of oversimplifying my problems (as he sees them) and then patronising me, although I'm sure he doesn't mean to. I do make sure to try and stop these conversations with him, but he's kinda pig-headed! I think I just need to avoid speaking with him while I am in this state of mind, because my tolerance/patience is low right now, and I don't want to be a b****!
You didn't get on my nerves, it was thoughtful of you to reply. Welcome to the forum, I hope you'll find it a supportive place to be. I'm sure I'll be seeing you around, and I'll be interested to hear your story too

Take care!