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Originally Posted by Rose76
I don't know why I am a magnet for these kinds of behaviors, but I am starting to figure it out. Once, when I was dating a guy, years ago, he actually told me that he noticed me at a nightspot because I looked like I would be the easiest person in the place to exploit. Actually, I'm not - as he did find out. (We sort of became friends.) But I do come across, apparently, as someone who will just tolerate anything. When I was a child, I was approached, inappropriately, by one of the local clergy. I was able to extricate myself from the situation and suffered no harm. I pretty much always do manage to extricate myself. The thing is - I would rather these things didn't even get started. I would rather be more able to "nip things in the bud" earlier. Too much of my time is being wasted. Too often, too many people have screwy ideas about what they can get away with in regards to how they treat me. (I'm talking some real screwy ideas. Also, lots of non-extreme ideas that are also wrong.)
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I'm not qualified to advise you, but I merely remark that the easiest thing to change would be the way you dress.
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