I second what chopin said. My T sounds very similar to hers (except he's a he). This has worked well for me, so your best bet is probably to avoid a T who specializes in one specific way of working. A lot of T's (at least in private practice) have websites where they describe their philosophy of therapy. If this isn't applicable, ask your new T what his approach is. Also, you described what you're looking for very well in your post. If you can just say that, I think you'll get your answers. Good luck!!!